When
another person’s thoughts, words, or actions, feel unloving, a person
should make an enquiry within themselves, as to why there is any impact
made on your psyche.
If
you are so sure, that the statements made by the offending party are
incorrect, then why have they made an impact at all? If someone said
you had blue eyes, when in fact they were brown, would you be terribly
upset?
There
are lessons to be learned by both parties, in situations such as these.
The lesson is, that we personally give all the meaning, and impact,
that any situation may hold for us.
Regardless
of what has been said, or what has transpired, we decide how we will
react to it. And,...since there is a wide variation, in how people
respond to the same circumstances, it becomes obvious, that there are
no set responses,... we are all at liberty to choose our responses, and
reactions.
The
next lesson, is that since we are at liberty to choose our responses,
we would do well to choose the response, or action, which results in
the greatest good for all concerned.
There
are two reasons for inappropriate, or unloving behaviour. Firstly, the
individual is unaware of their true nature, and secondly, the
individual is not exhibiting their true nature, because a particular
life situation, has been allowed to temporarily rise in prominence, to
the point where it is clouding their memory of their true self.
In
the extreme there are two emotions in life, from which all the other
feelings are derivatives, and they are the emotions of love, and fear.
Each carries a vibration, and just as love manifests within us, some of
the most desirable, and joyous feelings, so to does fear cause within
us, some of our least desirable feelings, and responses.
Now
since all physical life, of which we are a part, vibrates at the
atomic, and subatomic levels, it is a reality that everything carries
it’s own particular rate of vibration, which constitutes it’s physical,
mental, and emotional makeup.
It
is an established fact that like vibrations attract, and unlike
vibrations repel, (we are talking here about vibration, and not
magnetic polarity). Now, when you place that theory, within the context
of personalities, you can understand why, and how, people who are the
most attractive to others, carry the highest vibration, and exhibit the
most love, joy, and truth,... while those people who carry the lowest
vibration, exhibit fear paranoia, hostility, and depression.
And
so all people, are, through their present state of being, drawing to
themselves, all that is a likeness, to the vibrations they are
emanating.
Therefore,
your attraction or repulsion, toward another person, has primarily to
do with the energy exchange, between the two of you, which is powered
by the rate of vibration each person is carrying.
Ideas
are thoughts, which carry their own rate of vibration, therefore, if
another person's vibratory rate is significantly lower than your own,
then comparatively speaking, your ideas about how life should work,
will be contrastingly different, and has the potential to become a
source of conflict, between the two of you.
Life
is really, the polarization, between the vibrations of love, and the
vibrations of fear. That is why the bible repeatedly tells us to, “fear
not”, because you cannot move into a place of fear, without moving away
from love.
Now,
to apply this understanding to people who are being difficult. It
becomes obvious, that you are at odds, because of a difference in
overall rate of vibration. It does not do the individual who is
carrying the higher rate of vibration, any good to lower their
vibration, as a form of response, “two wrongs don’t make a right”. Your
goal is always to help the person who is holding a lower vibration, to
move from a place of fear, up the vibrational scale to a place of love.
Should
this action not be practical, or possible, for whatever reason, then
the next best thing, is to surround that person with multiple
personalities of high vibration, and in lieu of those two actions, if
no other solution presents itself, you should distance yourself from
that person of low vibration.
The
world exists in a state of duality, which allows us an opportunity to
make choices, between one thing, and another. This enables us to
experience, and explore ideas, and concepts, that result in value
judgments, and hopefully come to the conclusion that those thoughts,
words, and actions, motivated by love, are the most attractive to
others, and have the highest value, to both ourselves, and other people.
In
closing, let me say that finding a polar bear in a snow storm is tough.
You need contrast in life, in order to make choices possible, and those
choices allow for exploration, but ultimately after all the exploration
is over, there is a movement of all life back to it’s source, where
there is only unity, and no duality.
Love
is the only reality, to move toward love is to move toward GOD. All
problems are caused by a consciousness that is not exhibiting love in
it’s behaviour, and so the solution to all life’s problems, stem from
thinking loving thoughts, and acting in a loving manner towards others.
As
a last remark I will say that there are no right and wrong actions in
life,... there are only those actions which are based in fear,... and
those which are based in love.
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